Why is it that girls don't get what they want out of relationships?
What do girls want?
Are Christian men less likely to marry than non-Christian men?
If men are afraid of failure why don't they get relationship help?
Why do men want to hang out with a girl everyday but they don't want to call it dating and yet they don't want the girl to talk to any other men?
Why are men afraid of defining the relationship?
Why does the "define the relationship" conversation make it or break it for men?
Why is it a turn off to men for a girl to want to know where the relationship might be going?
Is that fair to the girl?
Why is it that a real man isn't scared at all?
Are all the other men just that insecure?
Why do girls let men walk all over them?
Why has the church taught women that that is what they should do?
Is it Biblical that women should be the responder in a relationship?
If that is true why do women seem to be better at nurtering relationships?
Please give me your thoughts?
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You asked for our "thoughts" and although I have a million thoughts concerning every line of this blog you posted, I will respond to the comment that affected me the most, in fact it felt like a SLAP!
ReplyDeleteI don't know WHAT CHURCH teaches girls to let "men walk all over them" but I know it is NOT Elijah's Fire International Church nor any pastor on our staff! And if you are in a church that teaches this, don't let the door hit you as you vacate that church. Nobody gave more honor and dignity to women in his time than Jesus and anyone who purports to know Jesus and does not do right by women is a liar and a pretender.
I wish I had a nickle for every time I told some star struck GIRL to NOT let some guy walk all over her -and she got mad at ME and left the church! (Don't ya just hate it when a pastor tries to save you from your own desire to be a human doormat. My, what was I thinking! The first gal I did this with at our church 11 years ago called every woman in the church and said I was "mean" and that someday when she married this great guy, in Las Vegas, that I would be sorry - of course what happened is that she moved this loser and his mother into her home and they both took her for everything she had and she ended up destitute and losing her home. Years later she told me she knew I was right.)
Pastors are tired of gals sleeping with guys on the first through third dates and then being amazed when the guy doesn't (A) call in the morning (B) propose marriage and (C) give a rip about supporting the child from the resulting pregnancy.
Who are the successful women I have seen marry well to awesome Christian guys who love and support them and live in integrity...?
Women who "wait on the Lord" for God to send the right guy. They do not beat the bushes, the internet or the classified ads for "Mr. Right". Just as Ruth married Boaz because she busied herself serving her family and serving the Lord - and God brought her the richest most influential man in the city - so when I see women serving God and serving others and not jumping from singles group to young adults group at various churches, looking for the right set of abs - I know that the woman who puts God first has a Boaz on the way.